Ladies & Gents welcome to Lipstick MANual where I vow to be raw, entertaining and most of all honest about what's on my mind......
First topic at hand, "Mistakes that women make in bed."
Ladies let's all be honest, whenever your sex life becomes a little humdrum whether you are in a monogamous relationship or not you automatically bring out your mental catalogue of all the ways your partner isn’t quite measuring up. Men usually tend to get a bad rap when it comes to understanding women’s bodies and what turns us on, making them easy targets in the blame game when sexual satisfaction starts to wane. Yes, they make their fair share of bedroom errors, BUT as the saying goes, it takes two to tango! As it turns out, top sex and relationship experts say that WOMEN make plenty of sex mistakes of their own. Here’s what they have to say about the six most common mistakes women make in the bedroom and what you can do to get the satisfaction you so rightly deserve.
Sex Mistake #1: Not Initiating Sex With Your Partner
-Most guys feel like they are the initiators when it comes to sex. Correct me if I'm wrong. Why is that? Well most ladies even in 2009 are so overly concerned about exemplifying those lady like qualities that they forget the saying actually says, "Act like a lady in the streets and a FREAK in the bedroom!"
Sex Mistake #2: Worrying About What You Look Like
-Well I am going to have to quote Kat Williams on this one, "REAL men aren't concerned with your stretch marks, it means one of two things, either you was big and you got small or you was small and you got big, eitha way, WE FUCKING!" LOL
Sex Mistake #3: Assuming Sex Is Casual for a Man
-The huge mistake in our American culture is that people assume that women are not sexual and men are not romantic. Never assume anything because as the ole saying goes you make an ASS out of U and ME.
Sex Mistake #4: Believing He’s Always Up for Sex
-I've been a culprit of this before as I assumed like alot of women that men are always up for sex but this couldn't be further from the truth. Sometimes he just want to be held a little just like you. lol
Sex Mistake #5: Not Giving Him Guidance
-I believe this is the reason why there are women walking around with 10+ years of sexual experience and only a handful of mind blowing orgasms under their belt. Tell him that he needs to go a little more to the left. If both people are into pleasing each other then you both can fall back on the bed afterwards staring up at the ceiling with a koolaid smile instead of you scratching your head wondering why he didn't do what you were secretly wishing he had.
Sex Mistake #6: Getting Upset When He Suggests Something New
-Just because you've been doing it that way for years doesn't mean it should stay so. Life is short so be more adventurous! Try it and you just may surprise yourself. BUT no one should ever try to make you do something you are not comfortable with. If your man suggests something that is out of your morals, then explain the reason why you don't want him to do such things to you in a nice tone of voice of course and follow that up with an alternative suggestion.
What are your thoughts on mistakes women make in bed.........
