No Way Girl is right! Now let me preface this blog with a disclaimer before I offend anyone on here. I am not a virgin, nor am I a saint. I do, however have an opinion and take the liberty to state it here. ;0)
So what's wrong with this picture?
Firstly both of these girls look very young, if not teens they certainly are not over 21 or so it seems. Secondly they are both full blown preggers and don't have a clue about how to care for themselves just yet ( I assume) let alone another being. So how do women, excuse me, girls think this is cute and glorify it via phone pictures like this posted to the internet. Why are you showing off your pregnant belly like it's a new car or some Look of the Day photo? I for one started having sex before I knew what the ramifications were not because my parents steered me the wrong way but because I wanted to, yet and still I had the good sense God gave me to put myself on birth control. Did all the Planned Parenthood locations close down or something? I know Magnum isn't out of business right? What happened to safe sex? I know sex feels better without the condom but so does having money while young, partying and living it up without the responsibility of children.
To me this can be a factor of bad parenting or just plain ole stupidity, you be the judge. I am just now 30 years old and still figuring out things about life as each day passes. I was not ready for a child at 16, 18, 21, 26, nor 29. Now I finally have the maternal itch or baby fever so to speak and can appreciate the longing for a child with my fiance' who is equally apt, ready and willing to start a family. From the outside looking in, having a baby before your 'time' not only puts stress and strain on you it also puts it equally on your support system mainly your parents AND the taxpayer (me)! I have a close family member that has done this not only once but twice and who has to pick up the slack, her parents. *side eye* It just pains me how women loosely say it was an accident. NO you purposely are not on birth control and you purposely didn't use a condom. Also News Flash you can NOT trap a man with a baby. This is not rocket science. 9 times out of 10 the man won't marry you if you bear a child out of wedlock and there is a high propensity that you will have to 'do it alone.' It's not fair to you, the baby or your support system.
This is not only an epidemic amongst teens and pubescent girls, grown women make this choice daily as well. I am quite known for being blunt and direct in my conversations, especially since I feel so adamantly about this topic in particular and I know for certain that my usage of the term 'baby mama' is offensive. I apologize if that word hurts your feelings. I also know that many women placate 'convenient theories for you daily' often times saying that is what they wanted and not every woman wants to get married and have a child with their husband and at the same time secretly wishing they had a man to depend on. That's fine if you are a 5 star chick but don't use the system to help you raise your child. Be independent and take care of your responsibilities on your own. Have some standards and choose a man that wants to father your child and won't leave you high and dry. This not only affects your finances, but your social life as well. I often hear it from single mothers who are invited out to hang with the girls and can't come because they don't have a sitter. Now while I do love 'some' children, not all and I'm just being honest lol I don't want to enjoy my adult festivities with yours being present ;0) ijs
I feel sorry for the girls and women that choose this life..... ;0(
