Read the lyrics below to the song "Goin Steady" and let's discuss.
We ain't goin' steady, we just be fuckin' 'round
Yeah the sex great but damn babe we fuckin' 'round
Girl you got me hot, poppin' up at my spot,
You out yo got damn mind, what the fuck is you thinkin' 'bout?
You've been misinformed, sorry if you read me wrong
I told you what you wanted to hear, sorry if I lead you on
Yeah that pussy good, girl I ain't gon' lie
But if you are lookin' for a dude, girl I ain't yo guy
I'm not gon' come over every day, I'm not gon' talk to you
On the phone all the time, you fuckin' stalker you
Look I ain't tryin' to be rude, but I ain't tryin' to eat your food
I'm gon' keep it funky with you, girl we ain't that cool
We just be coolin' it, we ain't goin' steady
Just hit my phone when you wanna play, girl you know I'm ready
We just be fuckin' 'round, girl you know better
You ain't my main squeeze, it ain't like we go together
You just my lil' buddy, we ain't goin' steady
Girl we just be fuckin', we ain't goin' steady
You just my fun girl, and me and you know better
We just be kickin' it, it ain't like we go together
I'll chill for a few; I'll stay for a second
Time is of the essence, no time like the present
Do a lil' score or you could do a lil' chore
We can make a movie, then I'm a keep it movin'
It ain't you baby it's me, me, me, central
After we get through just leave me alone
Aye, she textin' me like crazy, sendin' me them smiley faces
I'm yo Boyfriend #2, just here to Pleasure you
I need a naughty girl, fun girl that like to play,
A real party girl, just to cool it with
Whenever you ready to play just hit my phone, I'm ready
But don't be catchin' feelings baby, we ain't goin' steady
Now like me most of you women are probably appalled by the lyrical content and well you should be. If some man you were spending time with or dating told you these exact words you would be too through with him. BUT often times men do tell us these words, just not exactly like this, and show their feelings through actions like this yet we continue to stay knowing we want a REAL relationship. Why is that? There are a lot of 'it's complicated' situations going on out there where the woman wants the man, loves him with all her heart yet he comes around spends some time, eats some food, has some sex and goes on about his business leaving her confused. He might have even spent several nights over, let you borrow his car, bought you to meet his Mom but he doesn't consider you to be his girl or in a serious relationship.
If you are in this 'situation' and you want OUT, just leave, it's that simple. Sure he may be fine as wine and the sex is good or his wallet is loaded but time IS of the essence. You might be 30 something years old hoping to find a husband and have some children yet you are wasting your precious time with a man that doesn't want anything from you but fun. Don't be the fun girl be the smart woman you are and make yourself available, physically and mentally, for the right man. ;0)
