The female sexuality forum dedicated to discussing women's orgasm techniques
I came across this site last night while researching on the net and it is truly a gem for women like me who are avidly interested in sex http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org. I mean if you're going to have it, mind as well make it good right?
There is still a large percentage of our female population engaging in orgasmLESS sex and well that's no fun. Is it possible for a female to achieve orgasmic bliss every time they have sex like their male partners do? I think the misconception comes from miles of misinformation in magazines, blogs and other avenues telling women that the man is soley responsible for her sexual happiness. I tend to think that, well at least for me, the height of sexual arousal in women comes first from her head. Just because you are emotionally in love with the man on top of you doesn't mean that love will travel down from your heart to your vagina. It takes a little effort on your part and some on his as well. You have to learn how to relax and let go of the days events in order to clear your mind and prepare yourself for ecstasy. You can't be laying there thinking about the fact that you have to file your taxes, there are dishes still in the sink or mulling over that debate you had on Facebook earlier. For whatever reason, God made it much easier for men to shut off their brains and perform resulting in an orgasm whereas women have to consciously relax themselves in order to achieve the same result. This is where foreplay comes into play. Without foreplay the post play just may not be as good as it could be. Foreplay comes in all forms from sexting, sending naughty pictures, steamy emails to sultry phone calls all before you even see each other in person. Then when you finally do the senses of touch, taste, smell and sound comes into play and then well you know what to do after that ;0)
Despite suggestions to the contrary, men and women are not only from the same planet but also from the same species. Why should men and women experience the physical and psychological aspects of sexual arousal and orgasm totally differently?
There are differences between male and female sexuality relating to levels of sex drive, ease of arousal and the importance of orgasm. Nevertheless enjoying our sexuality through sexual arousal and orgasm involves:
- achieving PSYCHOLOGICAL sexual arousal through an appreciation of eroticism (images for men; stories & images for women); and
- (only once sexually aroused) reaching orgasm through PHYSICAL stimulation of the penis for men, clitoris for women.
Although it's just been a day since I joined this forum I am truly enjoying this website, check it out for yourself!
